Dementia Dimensions

Dementia Resource Center Blog for At Home Caregivers

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  • Ask Mimi, Emotional, Physical

How does one find respite care? I won’t put my wife in nursing home but I really need a break.- Doug S.

Caregiving is an enormous job, and you do need breaks.  See below for some local (Rochester, New York area) resources for respite care.
  • Ask Mimi

My husband is in dementia stage 6/7 and does not like to change his day clothes to night clothes. He also does not know how to use the bathroom. What should we do as we are both over 80? -Sabina S.

It sounds like you are having a hard time. In the short term, maybe you can have your husband's clothes be for day and night--sweatpants, for instance.
  • Book Review

A Dignified Life is Caregiver’s Friend

Dementia caregiving is a challenging journey. Learning how to be a best friend to both yourself, as the caregiver, and your loved one with dementia, could make all the difference.
  • Ask Mimi

My mother was just moved into memory care and is not happy about it. Any advice for me and my siblings to help cheer her up? -Bill S.

Sometimes we can’t really “solve” a situation like this. And sometimes we feel the need to solve it more than the elder involved does.
  • Book Review

Sizzling Bacon Explains Dementia to Kids

If you are looking for an adult book on dementia, Sizzling Bacon by A.F. Scott is not for you. However, if you are searching for a sweet, non-threatening, fantastical story about dementia from the point of view of a child, this one is recommended for those age 10 years and younger in your life.
  • Engagement

A Trip Down Memory Lane: REMINISCING

Reminiscing can be especially beneficial for those with dementia. We can all become frustrated when we forget recent events, names, or tasks.
  • Ask Mimi

My mom tells me the same stories, over and over. When I tell her she’s told me already, she gets angry with me. What can I do to help? -Bobby

This is easier said than done, but… stop telling her she’s told you. She doesn’t remember, and having her mistake pointed out to her just makes her feel defensive.

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