June 22, 2023

Is loss of voice part of the dementia process? – Jackie P.

I’m familiar with the loss of speech with dementia, but not loss of voice.

Perhaps there is a sore throat or other ailment that he isn’t able to articulate. Does he seem to respond negatively to loud noises or voices? As with any new symptom, I would contact his doctor. Let the doctor know when it started, and if it seems to be getting worse. Report if you are seeing any other symptoms or signs of pain (grimacing, frowning, not eating, changes in swallowing, restlessness, change in mood or sleep).

Recent Mondays with Mimi

Do I keep photos on a digital picture frame if the dementia viewer does not recognize them any longer? -Sue L.

February 28, 2024

I took 24/7 care of my husband until he passed in April. He was a gentle man clean until the end. He told me that he loved me about two weeks before he died. He had only one word answers after that. Is it normal for a dementia person not to have any expression of face? I never knew if I was giving him the kind of care he wanted. I did everything, and he did not complain. He was never in pain. He just quietly slipped away. I just worry with the question, “Did I do enough?” “Was I doing it correctly?” “Did he know that I loved him dearly?” I had hospice in four days a week and we/I kept him clean, dry, warm, well fed, etc. He was just such an appreciative husband for over 53 years. – Bev S.

January 26, 2024

My mother was diagnosed with dementia a little more than two years ago. She is starting to lose interest in a lot of the hobbies that have kept her busy in her retirement years, like gardening and book reading. I think she finds these activities more difficult to do now because of her physical decline, and maybe she is less confident. How can I help her get some enjoyment out of doing things she’s always loved to do. Any advice? – Toby W.

December 13, 2023

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